Preparing Your Child for Their First Checkup

There are many milestones in your child’s life, and going to the dentist for the first time is one of them. 

Whether they’ve just sprouted their first tooth or you’re finally scheduling their debut dental checkup, it’s completely normal to feel a little nervous. But with the right preparation and mindset, your child (and you) can walk into our office feeling comfortable, confident, and even excited. 

Join our experts at Rifkin Dental in Carmel and Yorktown Heights, New York, as we dive into the best strategies for prepping your child for their first checkup at the dentist. 

When should the first dental visit happen? 

The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends that children see a dentist by their first birthday or within six months of getting their first tooth, whichever comes first. While that may seem early, starting dental visits young helps prevent issues down the road and sets the foundation for lifelong healthy habits.

The first visit is usually quick and straightforward, and typically more of a getting-to-know-you appointment. We:

• Gently examine your child’s teeth, gums, and bite
• Check for signs of decay or potential concerns
• Discuss oral habits like thumb sucking or pacifier use

Depending on your child’s age and comfort level, we might clean their teeth or apply a fluoride treatment, but that’s not always necessary on the first visit.

Most importantly, the goal is to build trust and make the experience as relaxed as possible. Plus, it gives you a chance to ask questions and get expert tips on brushing, teething, and nutrition.

Talk about the dentist in a positive way

One of the best things you can do before your child’s appointment is talk about the dentist in a fun, upbeat way. Your kids pick up on your emotions, so they’ll likely feel the same if you sound anxious.

Use simple words like “the dentist will count your teeth” or “they’re going to make your smile sparkle!” 

Read books or watch videos together about visiting the dentist. There are plenty of kid-friendly stories that introduce the concept in a fun way. Play pretend at home, and let your child be the dentist and check your teeth with a toothbrush or spoon.

Avoid saying things like, “It won’t hurt.” Even if you mean well, that can imply that something might go wrong.

Choose the right appointment time

Timing is everything when it comes to toddlers and young kids. Schedule your child’s appointment when they’re well-rested and not hungry. For most, that means a morning visit. A well-timed appointment reduces the chances of crankiness or meltdowns.

Also, try not to schedule your child’s appointment too close to naptime or during a time that’s usually busy or overstimulating.

Don’t forget comfort items

If your child has a favorite stuffed animal, blanket, or toy, we encourage you to bring it along. A familiar item can offer comfort and security in a new environment. 

Lead by example

Kids learn a lot just by watching you. Talk about your own dental visits positively, and let your child see you brushing and flossing your teeth. When dental care is a regular part of family life, kids are more likely to accept it without fear.

Don’t be above bribery and rewards

Visiting the dentist for the first time is a hard thing. Rewarding bravery and good behavior with a special treat, a new sticker, extra story time before bed, or whatever else speaks to your child is always a good idea. 

Even if things don’t go perfectly, find something positive about the experience to reward them for. Remember, the goal is progress, not perfection. 

Try to shake your own anxiety

It’s uncanny how kids pick up and mirror our emotions. Do your best to walk into the office confidently, and don’t lose your cool if things spiral. Our team is specially trained to handle kiddos, and we’ve had squirmy, wiggly, or even screaming kids in our dental chair before. 

Your child’s first dental checkup doesn’t have to be stressful. You can help them build confidence with a little prep and a positive attitude. Starting early makes it easier for kids to form healthy habits and see dental care as something to look forward to, not fear.

Have more questions? Ready to schedule your child’s first visit? We’re here to make it a great experience for your whole family. Smiles start early, and we’re excited to be part of your child’s journey to a lifetime of healthy teeth.

Schedule your child's checkup online or over the phone today at our Rifkin Dental location closest to you.